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our-queer-experience
chongoblog

Wanna give a quick shoutout to the federal judge last week who struck down the Arkansas law that tried to outlaw gender-affirming care for minors, not only ruling it unconstitutional, but including 311 statements of fact all going against the gender-affirming care ban in a ruling that was 80 pages long. Especially since these statements make it harder for transphobes to appeal and iirc this is considered precedent.

onefey

name, don't forget to credit him by name! BIG thank you to judge james moody jr. for protecting trans kids in my state!!

our-queer-experience

Anonymous asked:

My partner and I (both enby) recently realized we're going to get married. Not now, not until we've lived together for a while, and I need to get a job, but it's inevitable at this point and I am sooso happy. I'm gonna sew my own dress, I have designs and everything and I'm looking at fabric. They don't want to get engaged because it's too public (said in a probably publicly posted Tumblr ask) so I think it would be really funny if we just casually dropped the news in the form of wedding invitations. It would be such a power move. They're so funny and smart and beautiful and I want them to be part of my life forever. Hehe.

our-queer-experience answered:

!!! im so happy for you, anon! you two sound like you’re going to be really happy together.

fuck-yeah-dylan
closet-keys

anyone else who is in a happily committed relationship notice that people’s line for where the “honeymoon” phase ends just extends ever into the future like some ominous axe they keep insisting will fall? 

in the beginning it was “oh your relationship is just starting!! of course you feel like she’s special and amazing, just wait a few months until the pattern of the relationship settles in” 

then a few months later is “oh you haven’t even been together a full year yet, wait until you’ve been together that long” 

then after a year it’s “well wait until you live together, that’s when it really happens- you’ll get annoyed by her habits and start taking things for granted” 

then after living together for a year they’re like “well actually it happens after living together for five years” 

I can’t help picturing myself in my 60s telling someone how breathtaking and wonderful my partner is and someone’s like “it’s cute how you’re still in that honeymoon phase, but just wait until you’re in your 70s, that’s when you really settle into the relationship” 

closet-keys

made this post over 5 years ago so here’s the update: we’re married, we’ve been living together for over half a decade (through moving, multiple periods of unemployment for both of us, covid lockdowns, emergency room visits, surgery recovery, etc.), and I continue to be very much in love with her. she is so fucking smart and thoughtful and amazing, and she gets hotter and more stunning every single day. I still blush when she says sweet things to me.

fuckyeahasexual
acesnyc

Yesterday was NYC Pride, and Aces NYC has a fun time marching! 

Not only were we #7 in the March (out of hundreds of groups), but this was also the first year there has ever been an asexual Grand Marshal! Yasmin Benoit, an asexual activist from the U.K., was one of the 2023 Grand Marshals.

After the March, we got to take a group photo with her. 

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You can also spot many of us on Yasmin’s Instagram video. We’re the ones about 11 seconds in holding ace and aro flags and posters. 

Overall, we had a great time at the Pride March!

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